Master's rules

'What are my duties?' I asked.
'Exquisite beauty and absolute obedience,' said Master.
~ Slave Girl of Gor

When I approached Beloved about D/s play, I did so because it answered something deep inside me. I had a need for guidance and for reassurance in my new life as mother. Lately, I have gotten too comfortable and have stumbled off the path in search of my own desires. For this reason, my Beloved Master has given me new rules and structure.

We discussed writing them down. Beloved expressed concern that it was sounding like a contract...I don't consider it to be a contract, but a reminder of what is expected of me. These rules are soft, flexible, subject to change, adjustment, and correction.


*** I am a representative and reflection of my Beloved Master in all things. To that end, I must conduct myself with grace and gratitude. This is especially important when in the company of folk who understand my submission to Beloved.

*** I am to always wear a mark of my submission, specifically the submission to my Beloved Master. This must be one of my Beloved Masters provided and / or accepted items.

*** I will communicate with my Beloved Master when I am distressed in any way. I will to the best of my abilities follow all my Beloved Master's rules, guidelines, and rituals he has provided.

*** I will keep my Beloved Master's home clean and tidy to the best of my ability, understanding that we have a small child.

*** I am to maintain my health and body in a manner that pleases my Beloved Master. Normal toilet duties, such as bathing, brushing teeth, cleaning ears, elimination processes, etc., shall be carried out as necessary without direction from my Beloved Master. Once a week, I shall volunteer a time to submit to my Beloved Master's bathing of me. I shall maintain a shaved pussy to the specifications of Beloved, allowing that to change as he chooses. I am also to keep up with regular medical appointments and prescriptions without further direction from my Beloved Master, although I am to mention changes in such care.

*** I am to be available to my Beloved Master's desires at all times. Stance commands, such as SIT, PREEN, KNEEL, and OFFER will be assumed immediately. This means dropping any other task to fulfill his command. The one exception is in immediate care of our children.

*** I am to fulfill any tasks my Beloved Master sets for me on a daily basis, whether those involve chores, services, or other attentions.

*** I am to attend to my Beloved Master every night just before bed by performing the OFFER stance and awaiting his pleasure.

*** I am to be available to please anyone my Beloved Master chooses in the same manner that I am to be available to my Beloved Master. If I am particularly uncomfortable with a command, I will communicate that to my Beloved Master.

*** As a polyamourous creature, I have permission to seek out, flirt with, and have online relations with anyone I choose. These relations can embody any form I choose so long as those relations remain online only. "Online only" means that there is no connection / communication that could turn into a physical connection.

*** If I am EVER to physically meet someone that my Beloved has not met and / or approved of, I am to make a safe call with Beloved Master and specify what the meeting will entail and ask for approval. If the meeting is such that it is to prepare a surprise for Beloved, I may make a safe call to another trusted person and specify what the meeting will entail.

*** I have permission to play with a few trusted others without a safe call, but only if such play has been discussed and cleared with my Beloved Master first. There is one exception to that rule, whom will not be publicly named.

*** If I am meeting to "play" with anyone, trusted or not, my Beloved Master should be informed beforehand where possible or as soon as possible afterwards. "Play" denotes ANY activity of a sexual or BDSM variety.

*** In my play with others my body is to remain unmarked unless explicit permission from Beloved Master is given. It is my responsibility to communicate this to my partners and to hold them to it. If I am marked, I shall be held responsible for the transgression.

*** I am to be fluid-bonded to no one except my Beloved Master.