Wisdom

I met Dove at SJW'09. While we haven't connected since then, I am often awed by her dedication, insight, and wisdom. Today, she shared this:

Finally i asked him point blank: Why are you letting me get away this? I would not tolerate this from a submissive if i were the D/M!?! He very quietly and patiently looked at me and said:

"If i have to push, prod, cajole, etc for you to submit to me, are you really a submissive? Are you really submitting? If i have to fight for every little thing, its easier for me to do the thing myself. You begged for my collar, so why are you testing me? If I am Master, and you saw fit to wear my collar, why do you struggle in the bonds you asked for?"

I had to learn to trust and obey.

*deep breath* wow. yes. This fits me so well, it aches...it seems so simple, but so impossible. Why do I struggle in the bonds I asked for?