Once upon a time in a land far away, there was a Dominant and a submissive who were happily married. For reasons of their own their D/s was never and could never be fully explored. One day the Dominant noticed that the intensity of his chosen one's submission rose whenever she observed a BDSM demo or spent time socializing at lifestyle events. This caused him to wonder if his sweet submissive was not getting the opportunity to fully realize and enjoy her submissiveness because of their circumstances.
Sitting under a Great Oak Tree one day while smoking a Fragrant Pipe (I threw that in for you, Allison) he pondered this dilemma. Then the answer came to him. Could he ensure her personal safety and retain her trust in himself and arrange an opportunity where she could experience her submissiveness to a greater depth with another Dominant?
If this fairy tale was yours, what would you do?
*soft sigh* This little fairy tale is waaaaay to familiar, although it was MY idea to explore D/s with another Dominant. It didn't work out so well...
As a Dominant, would you have reservations in participating in such a limited fashion? As a submissive what would your reaction be if your Master suggested this to you?
I have long fantasized about being given to another...whether it was Master's guest whom he wanted me to please for an evening, training, or simply another experience to deepen my submission. Although Beloved has “offered” me to another person, it was someone I was already familiar with. If Beloved were to suggest this on his own??? If he found someone and simply handed me off without my input??? I don't know.
Who would most likely be attracted to such a scenario - a knowledgeable and experienced Dominant, a player or someone with a completely untrustworthy agenda? How would you go about finding the right person to trust with your beloved submissive?
I'd guess there would be a LOT of players or untrustworthy characters, and that the right Dominant would be a needle in a haystack, but that some carefully considered questions and explained expectations would help. *shrug* Kinda like being poly...insisting that all parties meet in person tends to freak a lot of the wannabies out.
Would there be any limitations on the Dominant's contact with your submissive?
Beloved has placed limitations on my play with others for a variety of reasons. No marks (his personal preference), no fluid bonding, detailed accounts of my time from the other man's perspective... It's depended on where we were in our relationships and what Beloved was curious about at the time.
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